Making Lab Visits More Bearable

by Alan Greene, MD, FAAP

The amount of information that can be gleaned from a small amount of blood is truly amazing. This information can literally make the difference between life and death. Unfortunately, for many children, their fear of the needle stick required to obtain that small amount of blood is greater than their fear of death itself.

A child’s degree of needle fear changes at different developmental stages. Additionally, each individual child’s fear is affected by his or her past experiences. Most children who require frequent blood draws will inevitably have a bad experience—a technician misses the vein, digs to find it, then the child begins to cry and tries to escape from the pain, the technician tries harder, and so on. Finally someone gets the needed blood and the child is no longer tormented, but the terror of the experience goes with the child. The next time someone attempts to draw blood from the child, the whole experience revisits the child’s emotions, bringing tension into every muscle of his or her body.

In general, it is much more difficult to draw blood from children than from adults, due to the relative size of their veins. Additionally, most adults can reason with their fears. As adults we can understand the need for the tests our doctors recommend. We may not be able to completely divorce ourselves from negative past experiences, but we can tell ourselves that it probably won’t be as bad this time as it was last time. We know that if it is not going well, we can demand a different technician, and as a last resort, we can get up and walk out. That level of control makes the experience far more manageable for adults than for children. At most developmental stages, most children don’t have the ability to reason with their fears. As children they can’t demand better service, and they feel powerless to change the course of events. As parents we not only have power over our own medical care, but also over that of our children. As your child’s guardian, there are several things you can do to make the experience better for your child:

Mirror your child’s emotions back to him or her

If your child begins to act out before you even get to the lab, stop and talk about how he or she is feeling. You might begin by saying, "You are acting as if you are angry." Usually a child will respond to these kinds of statements with something like, "Yeah, I'm mad." You can keep the conversation focused by drawing out further emotions: "It really doesn't seem fair, does it?" "No. Why do I have to always get stuck?!" Let your child know that you accept her emotions. Don’t say something like, "Now it’s time to be a big girl." Instead say, "I understand why you are angry."

Get your child involved in a solution

  "Since we’ve got to get this blood test, how can we work together to make it as easy as possible?" Even very young children can brainstorm, and when they are involved in coming up with a solution, they try harder to make it work. Here are some things you might suggest during the brainstorming session:
bulletYour child could sit on your lap during the blood draw.
bulletYou could hold his or her "other" hand.
bulletYou could hold your finger up like a candle and let your child blow it out when the needle goes in. Make a game out of it—that pesky flame won’t go out easily, so your child needs to blow and blow until the blood draw is over. (This is similar to Lamaze breathing.)
bulletYou could do a tap dance during the draw to distract him or her (this is especially good if you can’t dance and your child knows it!)
bulletYou could let your child pretend to draw blood from his or her teddy bear. Be sure to ask how the teddy bear is feeling. If the teddy bear hurts (which I’m sure he will!), ask your child to think of things that could be done to make teddy feel better.
bulletYou could leave the room—sometimes older kids would prefer this; it makes them feel grown up.

Do everything you can to get your child to relax before the blood draw
bulletIt is much easier to get the stick if the child is relaxed:
bulletLeave plenty of time to get to the lab. If you are tense in traffic, your child will get tense, too.
bulletPlay soothing music in the car on the way to the lab.
bulletIf possible, make it a one-on-one time with the child who is getting the test—leave siblings with a sitter.

Make friends with the lab technicians

This one is important! Lab technicians dread aggressive parents. It makes them tense and they miss more often.
bulletLearn the names of the people who work in the lab. If one seems particularly good, ask for him or her by name. People are always honored when you do that, and they try to give you better service.
bulletTreat the people who work at the lab with respect.
bulletBring them goodies from time to time.
bulletThank them for their time and work.

In general, I recommend two (maybe three) tries before requesting someone new. If your child is dehydrated the veins may be particularly difficult to find. It is better to let someone who has "gotten to know" the current status of your child’s veins try a third time than to get a new person involved.

Sometimes, even when your child’s veins are in great shape, your favorite technician will miss. Maybe he or she is having an off day. There is nothing wrong with requesting that someone else take over—IF you do it nicely. "I’ve promised my son that I won’t let anyone stick him more than twice. I know you usually get it the first time, but I really need to keep my word to my son, so I hope you won’t mind getting your supervisor. If she’s busy, we’ll be glad to wait."

If your child becomes upset during the blood draw, give him or her options (if your child is old enough to understand what’s going on). Ask if he would feel better if you all took a little break, or would it be better just to get it over with. Let your child know that not doing it at all isn’t an option.

There is a topical anesthetic, called "EMLA Cream" that will numb the skin and make needle sticks more comfortable. It must be applied one to two hours before the procedure. EMLA is not routinely used for blood draws. It can add to a child’s anxiety, because he or she may begin to think about (and often dread) the lab visit during the preparation period.

Frequent blood draws can become a major emotional issue for children. If your child is already "deathly" afraid of needles or if he or she comes to that point, you may want to seek the help of professionals. Most children’s hospitals have a Child Life department with trained specialists. These departments often offer classes for their patients and may be able to facilitate participation for out-patients as well.endstory.gif (74 bytes)

Dr. Greene makes housecalls! Visit his website at www.drgreene.com

Dr. Greene is in private practice at ABC Pediatrics in San Mateo, CA. He is the Chairman of the Department of Pediatrics for Mills/Peninsula Hospitals and on the Clinical Faculty at Stanford University School of Medicine.


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